possible fix for issue #1185

dist/converse.js

@@ -75974,7 +75974,7 @@ var __WEBPACK_AMD_DEFINE_FACTORY__, __WEBPACK_AMD_DEFINE_ARRAY__, __WEBPACK_AMD_
           const id = iq.getAttribute('id');
           const from = iq.getAttribute('from');
 
-          if (from && from !== _converse.connection.jid) {
+          if (from && from !== _converse.bare_jid) {
             // https://tools.ietf.org/html/rfc6121#page-15
             // 
             // A receiving client MUST ignore the stanza unless it has no 'from'

src/converse-roster.js

@@ -539,7 +539,7 @@
                      */
                     const id = iq.getAttribute('id');
                     const from = iq.getAttribute('from');
-                    if (from && from !== _converse.connection.jid) {
+                    if (from && from !== _converse.bare_jid) {
                         // https://tools.ietf.org/html/rfc6121#page-15
                         // 
                         // A receiving client MUST ignore the stanza unless it has no 'from'